Previous Months

So just afraid I can't wake up for that.

I know recently I have been staying up

And got my friends really worried for my health...

But I pretty much got a screwed body clock so... Yea 

I'll try to change it back.

Because!

IM GONNA WORK TO BUY LOOM BANDS.

Sounds really naive there myself haha🔺

But of course not just that reason.

As the topic goes ,

overthinking.

It probably just happens to most women but no,

Like come on guys, 

Different gender but we're humans here.

We all have worries , up and downs , best experiences, worst experiences. 

Maybe many times people don't show but, they are actually overthinking about their situation... 

Many times, it's normal we picture our problems even worst then they really are. 

Because we're anxious sometimes to get the problem solved.

Overthinking leads us to being paranoid.

But we can't help people from overthinking... 

I overthink too sometimes myself...

But I think it's the degree of it.

Sometimes when someone nice and friendly comes into your life,

Tries to make friends with you with no ill intention but probably you have experiences where you had people being BFFs with you but ending up frienemies or strangers.

True that you have to be wary of people but 

Isn't it like judging someone when you just met the person and they are gonna dump you as a friend afterwards? 

Overthinking just made you an enemy . No? 

And sometimes , 

Overthinking makes you doubt people who are dearest to you , closest to you.

Don't you think that people who shower you with love with all their hearts will feel really hurt? 

Overthinking ... 

We come to be suspicious of things that aren't even the case... Most of the time.

And many times we feel anxiety, stress but that is all not necessary.

Well humans have a complex mind.

Some people think a lot more than others 

Sometimes sensitive...

But when you feel paranoid , talk to your best friend or anyone... That can help by listening . 

Because sometimes when others hear about the problem you're facing,

It's true of course we don't know.

But if you don't speak we won't know how to help either. 

But at times like this , it's best to not hear  more comments about the problem but advice. 

Because unnecessary comments may make you overthink even more 

Or just totally causes you not to see the whole picture even more

In order words, screw you up! 

Which leads you to asking yourself more questions. 

Kinda like a repeating cycle.

So choose a listener wisely,

Someone who is neutral or listens like really listen 

And gives neutral advices 

Sometimes, a person who's not much of a listener who may not understand your problem or can't really tell what you're saying because you are anxious maybe , 

Chances are they may give comments that worsen the situation 

But you know yourself best..

You can always choose not to heed an advice but just have a listening ear

So it's really up to you.

Nobody can control what you wanna do

So do things that make you joyful.

Of course good things. 

So

Calm yourself down , 

Or confront the problem.

Find the truth... 

Running away also cause you to overthink more.

There will always be somebody 

Somebody will be there for you.

Maybe anxiety , or fear 

Or guilt , embarrassed 

Make you afraid of going to seek the person for help but

The person who care ,

Is waiting for you.

Hoping you come to him/her 

While their heart hurts so much seeing you like this...

Just talk to someone it will help(: 

And seek advice but not gossips or comments that would cause even greater fire to the matter. 

There is a purpose for you who live ! 

Find the purpose👍

Pretty serious topic here, isn't it...

Well I have friends who overthink and come to slit themselves or left me

I don't know if this would help but probably sound pretty harsh and I may be wrong

ITS ONLY MY POINT OF VIEW 

So if you disagree go ahead, 

No hard feelings

!BACKSTORY ALERT! 

(You can scroll pass till the 💜) ✌️

Because used to I also overthink a lot , 

And I got really annoyed with myself so badly. 

I angered my friend , 

I thought my friend despised the way I am because I overthink too much .

Probably can say reading between the lines when the person in the first place,

Just only meant the thing they say.

My friend got really angry ,

She said it was like putting thoughts on her thoughts 

(Like words in her mouth)

When I saw that,

I didn't understand why she said that.

And really it's only myself thinking that she despised me because I read in too much to what she was trying to say.

But thankfully,

She understands and we cleared the misunderstandings .

She was really concerned about me(:

So don't worry sometimes we fight with our friends because of misunderstanding 

But it's really tough to go back and fix a broken friendship as time passes 

So quickly take the chance before it gets even harder or awkward.

Especially when the person is really really concerned about you.

They were angry because they are concerned about you.

Let's keep an open mind.

I'm really thankful for my friends!

Especially Liying.💜💜💜

During many many hurdles she was there with me.

Saw me cry , saw me being paranoid.

She totally feel like a mum to me.

Haha.

She encouraged me a lot a lot a lot.

Where her encouragement helped me to do things I do today too.

Do really hope we be friends till we are mums even hahaha

So, maybe sometimes we lose a lot of BFFs on the way but it's okay,

At least we know maybe we're not fated to be friends 

But the one fated will be coming soon^^

Have a good night rest

And a bright and beautiful day ~

Hope it helps in some way ? 

Hope it didn't cause it to be worst !!!🙇